Volunteer Story: Cheri Rathburn

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     Cheri (right) with a student at the MVM Missions Trip.

Cheri Rathburn is a volunteer with N.W. Licking County Campus Life

I’d only been hanging out with the teens at Monday night Campus Life Club for a few weeks when they started talking about their summer missions trip that they call Mohican Valley Mission Trip. They talked about how they get to serve the elderly in Mansfield during the day and have Bible studies in the evening. I still wasn’t too sure what it was all about when our Ministry Site Leader Stephanie Stanforth asked me if I would help chaperone for the week. I was reluctant. I felt I was too old to relate to the teens and even keep up with them at camp. But Stephanie was encouraging and mentioned we would also have a fun day at Cedar Point. That sounded fun so I signed up.

I stayed in the cabin with the girls and other chaperones. I found it challenging to relate to the girls that I hadn’t gotten to know yet. One evening at lights out time, “Adriana” gave me a particularly hard time when I tried to quiet the girls to go to sleep. I felt that I was not heard or respected by her. The ministry leaders said that I needed to have a follow up conversation with Adriana about how to treat adults. When I got time with her I also encouraged her to tell me some positive attributes about herself and show me what “nice Adriana” would look like. She could not tell me anything she liked about herself. That made me very sad. After camp, I would see Adriana at club but she rarely acknowledged me. That was four months ago.

Just recently, I got another chance to talk with Adriana one on one when I drove her home from club. We kept the conversation casual but when I got to her home she wanted to introduce me to her mom. I introduced myself and made polite conversation. As I was getting ready to go, Adriana HUGGED me. I was so surprised and heartwarmed by this because she has never been affectionate to me or anyone else that I’d seen. Since then, Adriana acknowledges me when we are at club, and I feel respected by her.  I can see hope in her future now.

I don’t expect warm and close relationships with teens, especially the ones who come from difficult backgrounds where they do not have positive role models in their lives. Some weeks I might not even feel like I am making a difference by attending…but each week God brings me back and I continue to feel inspired and lifted up.

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